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And if he does mention girls, it's always with the underlying sentiment that he hasn't found the right one yet, except he has and it's you.Ħ. You know he's single, attractive, and cool, and there's no way there aren't girls who are into him, but you definitely never hear about them. He never talks about having crushes on other women because to him, other women basically don't exist. Possibly of the boyfriend/girlfriend variety.
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Whether it's conscious or not, he's telling you he loves the connection you two have and is trying to slowly tell you, "Look at how much fun we have! Man, we have a cool connection. He brings up your inside jokes like they're quotes from his favorite movie. Friends who go to lunch together, museums together, and movies together with just the two of you, hanging out for hours, with him silently wishing at some point he could hold your hand.Ĥ. You hang out one-on-one all the time doing, let's be honest, couple-y things. And not just of the "oh man, our connection as two platonic humans has truly intensified" variety.ģ. New, or maybe not new, but definitely more intense #feelings. If your hugs used to be kind of standard, and now they're longer and more affectionate, it's because #feelings are there. When he hugs you, it feels like he's making out with you using only his arms. If total strangers and friends think you guys are giving off couple vibes, it's because he's absolutely wishing you two were a couple.Ģ. The guy he saw was not my boyfriend, but he was a guy friend I thought might be into me. One time I had a guy at a bar tell me he didn't ask me out because he saw I had a boyfriend. Your friends ask if you guys are a thing yet.
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Not because I'm oblivious but because it's so easy to see those signs and not want to be That Person who assumes someone is totally into her when he's actually just being a really good friend who happens to be a guy.īecause I tend to lean toward "maybe he's just being nice!!!" and usually need to be beaten over the head with mixtapes, picnics, and quirky flower arrangements before I start to think, "Wait, does Jeff like me?" while everyone around me rolls their eyes and says, "Yes, are you kidding?" I can save you some of that time.ġ. I can't tell you how many times I've had a guy friend who I was into who I kiiiind of thought was into me too but I couldn't really tell.